A lesbian with four children? That’s a lot of turkey basting.
Actually she was married to a man until a year or so ago, not exactly sure. All of her children are from the REAL marriage. I’d cry child abuse myself if I were the husband, but I don’t know where he is or the circumstances. Oddly enough this cousin and her first cousin (they are children of my first cousins) are lesbians and both had been in hetero marriages and had children.
Not sure what clicks in their brains(or whatever)to turn them lesbian.