“... my wife was against it”.
Please consider taking your wife with you at the range. My point being this: you aren’t always at home. She should be able to properly use the firearm as well. She may never “like it” but she should know HOW to use it if the situation arises. Not sure the age of your children but teens should know how to use it as well. Just my honest opinion... (((Hugs))) Mom
Thanks—good advice.