Fighting words! Seriously, you want to make a coed openly hostile, "snowflake" does it every time.
Gosh, I'm so sorry for my offense, but you should know better than to use an offensive sexist term like "coed".
I realize now that "Snowflake" should only be used to refer to what used to be known as "fairies". What they are called now I am unsure, so I checked this reference, and now I'm even more confused than ever, but I think the correct term would be "non-heteronormative male".