My older brother is about the same age as Cruz. I’m a little less than two years younger than he is. I see how Cruz behaves and acts, and that is the very same reason why I would beat the crap out of my brother on a regular basis. He had that same combination of irritating qualities that Cruz has. Most people grow out of it, or at least avoid getting sucked into a pissing match that they can’t win.
Cruz is a prick. My God anyone who gets near the guy hates him. Well, almost everyone...
Maybe you should get some help with your family problems so you can get past projecting them on everyone else.