Yeah, but that sounds a lot like blaming the female. I think men just don’t like to listen to women. It is not about them. They don’t care about the pretty flowers or when color of shirt to buy or whatever else uninteresting subject a woman wants to talk about. It is not just that they have “learned” to not listen because the woman does not take their advice. it’s that the men can be too selfish to step outside themselves and get involved in the woman’s interests for a little while. They turn their attentions to the woman when they want physical contact. For emotional interaction they turn to the guys, talking endlessly and emotionally about those five feet of the latest football play advance, or the latest tech gadget, or some car engine, etc. Totally uninteresting stuff.
Oh, bravo!
Kiss-kiss-kiss....
Of course, I DO love lots of men things. But, sometimes I wonder when it is not exactly what the man likes....well....let’s just say some men don’t seem to care that I love cars, because they don’t....
What you described is very true.
But instead of pointing figers at men or women and saying he/she is wrong...maybe BOTH sides need to understand how EACH side is wired.
What you said about men IS true and men need to understand where a woman is coming from (and going to), BUT...they also need to look inside and see how they themselves are wired.
And visa versa. It applies to women to.
It does nether sex any good, simply to try to understand how the opposite, thinks, acts and feels, without also understanding their own wiring, so that they can better understand the differences.
And THAT is the failure of the PC/Gender neutral crowd.