The Dating Struggles Of Being An Alpha Female

The Bolde ^ | October 12, 2015 | Andrea Wesley

[C19fan]

eing an alpha female is, for the most part, pretty awesome. I know this because I am one. We’re wildly independent, ferociously driven and we favor passion over tender romanticizing. We’re also incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men. This makes our dating lives more of a challenge to navigate. We’re not your typical submissive and doting partners, we’re a challenge. For this reason, finding a man who can handle and understand the traits we carry is much harder. These are the real struggles of being an alpha female in the dating world.

[CatherineofAragon]

Just about any woman’s appearance can be improved by the careful use of makeup. I love it, always have. It’s a girly thing, I suppose. Also, you have to know how to apply it properly.

[Finny]

"Does this dress make me look fat?"

*No, your ass makes you look fat!*

*ducking*

[Norm Lenhart]

Ladies, I think both of you have your points but you seem to be missing the major question here.

“Does Normie haZ a sammich”

And really thats all you need to concern yourselves with. That you do not KNOW if Normie haZ a sammich is bad enough. However rather than tripping over each other to MAKE NORMIE A SAMMICH, you seem to be intent on discussing this nonissue about makeup.

The correct answer to your dilemma is “What sort of sammich would you like Normie?”

And the answer is Roast Beef and Swiss on white with Tobasco.

Woy’re welcome. My work here is done...

[Finny]

Women do not exist without the utility and protection of men.

Absolutely correct.

Women everywhere need always remember: Men are the sole protectors of women. The freedoms we enjoy, we enjoy because men let us.

It's why I love men.

[Finny]

I love seeing so many kindred spirits here!

[CatherineofAragon]

"In groups of women, there are definitely alphas. But VanDeKoik, I do agree that for a marriage to be content, out of the duo, there's no such thing as an alpha female. A husband is alpha by default; if he's not that in the lady's heart, she should rethink marrying him in the first place. But hey, that's just me."

I agree with that. A woman can be strong and confident and still recognize her husband as head of the house (and her heart).

And for a good marriage, both spouses should be thinking of the other before himself/herself.

[Finny]

God bless you for a hero!! *sigh* And you wear cowboy boots, too. Your wife has many envious friends. :^)

[Norm Lenhart]

Yup! the thing is that an Alpha female knows that without the drama and either fixes it or is fine with it.

[CatherineofAragon]

I’ll be happy to fix you a sandwich...and then we’re gonna have a word. Hold on, let me find that frying pan...

[Norm Lenhart]

Had actually. She sings in the choir invisible. But ye she did ;)

[Norm Lenhart]

Thats fine. Sammich first, kinky stuff later ;)

[Mollypitcher1]

You’re right, it is a “girly” thing. I’ve never considered myself a “girly girl.” I consider makeup appropriate for evenings out or special occasions. I’ve never had the time to waste “putting my face on.”

[Tau Food]

Who would want to date this toxic mixture of insecurity and ego. Can someone deliver her a cat lady starting kit. Make a sandwich *itch.

I think an Alpha Female is born that way. The real issue for her is whether she can develop a comfort about being what she is. People who are comfortable with themselves are attractive whether they are Alpha, Beta, or Omega.

[Finny]

Ah. Yes. Well, to me, an “average guy” is two things: a misnomer, and also more or less beta, as critical as an alpha. Gotta have both.

[CatherineofAragon]

LOL!

[Mollypitcher1]

Aw come on Normie, wouldn’t you rather have it with horseradish? :>)

[Finny]

I'll be happy to fix you a sandwich...and then we're gonna have a word. Hold on, let me find that frying pan...

{^))

[CatherineofAragon]

"You’re right, it is a “girly” thing. I’ve never considered myself a “girly girl.” I consider makeup appropriate for evenings out or special occasions. I’ve never had the time to waste “putting my face on.”

Oooh, meow! ;)

Well, I like being feminine and I've always enjoyed applying it. I don't consider it a waste of time, but rather taking time to look my best.

I know there are some females who have some idea they're superior for not wearing it. I never understood that, really.

[Norm Lenhart]

How can I put this HELLLLLLLL NOOOOOO!!!!!!!

Ugh. I hate Horsegarbage.

[CatherineofAragon]

lol