My male friends and I were pre-teens when we made that judgment.
He was 11 years older than Marilyn.
He may have been attractive to you and Marilyn, but that was definitely not the consensus in 1956, when, if my math is correct, you were just one year old.
Anyway, if you reread my comment, it was written to make people laugh, and it concluded with a healthy dose of self-parody.
Oh, ok! I missed the self-parody. I guess Miller, given his lanky length and powerful personality, appeals to women. He was also very funny when he appeared on the Cavett show many years ago. I love a good sense of humor!