I don’t think a persons history is going to keep them from finding a mate, love is love.. I’ve seen more than a few party girls settle down in my day.
I do think however that women just don’t know how to understand or relate to men at all anymore, their mothers don’t explain the basics to them and so they pick up what they know from bitter feminist crap... so they have long strings of failed dating because they ruin ever long term potential by trying to hard to be the “independent” woman and offended by anything they remotely have been brainwashed into being patriarchial which of course causes more of their relationships to fail and makes them more bitter.
Dating some women today is literally like trying to live the taming of the shrew and most guys aren’t going to bother with that.
I am not saying its impossible, but the truth is that a womans SMV is related to how selective she is.
Oh and I agree with you about how feminism has ruined American women. They can’t relate and get bitter when red pill reality appears. Take a look at eastern European women or Asian women. Their mothers still explain the basics about men to them, and such, they have more success with men.