Dude, public opinion on you is running 6-1 against or more....and since your entire premise is that she will be damaged by this, the PP debate will be damaged by this - the reaction here should indicate that maybe you are hypersensitive to this detail - especially in a format that is not prone to every word uttered being 100% academically technically correct.
This is Free Republic....dude.
And, of course, I’ve done you the favor of giving you background info on this that you can use effectively if it comes up. You will be precise.