There’s some of the “unfairness”, if you will, of how life and sex works, and how the two sexes view things.
What I’m trying to say, is that most men are eager for sex and aren’t that picky about the woman. Whereas women are in the position of being able to have as much casual sex as they can handle, but, most women just aren’t interested in casual flings or sex on the first date or any of that.
Actually, that isn’t necessarily true.
Women very have been known to want someone younger or better looking than they can easily attract. Especially if they have had several kids and haven’t taken care of their bodies.
Or they may desire stamina or some specific physical characteristics.
They may have to go to some lengths to get that.