Next time, let her feed the bears?
Too late. MIL passed away at age 88 about four years ago. Outlived FIL by about six years. I’m trying to not bother my head about her. She had some decent points, I reckon; it’s not an easy relationship for most people. So, I don’t feel alone. I’m just hoping & praying that I won’t have to be under her “authority” in the next realm. - I think she might have guessed that I was tapped out with her; but I’m glad I didn’t retaliate or forbid my husband doing stuff for her - including financial things.