You DO need to send Fr DeCelles’ homily to your priest and tell him that this is the proper response and he needs to man up.
I felt moved to write an email to Father DeCelles himself just now, to let him know that unbeknownst to him, MANY benefit from his wisdom and preaching. I told him I sent links to his sermons to my own family, extended family and you guys who have priests who are less stout of heart than he is, and that you take solace from what he has to say. I figured he could use some lifting up since he may be getting pushback from his own parish for all I know.
Or mien up?