I was raised by a single parent and grandparents. I raised my daughter as a single parent after my wife died. At no point in either of our lives do either of us regret that.
Now should my mother have given me up because Dad went banging half the WAC corps or should I have turned my daughter over to strangers?
Because I would really like to know.
I was referring to your assertion that the original parent is always the best parent. I can assure you that that is not always so.