How do we know that Mr Meyers isn’t deeply flawed? He is obviously a hero in war but that doesn’t necessarily make him a great life partner/husband. Sometimes what makes a person a warrior also makes that same person very hard to live with.
Deeply flawed or not, it’s shaping up that Dakota is the dad. And she’s no prize. Whatever his flaws, she has as many. However, I believe that marriage can help each partner become a better person and it’s too bad that they didn’t get married and this child will be another illegit statistic.