I'm not conflating the two issues. She should have waited until she was married but they didn't. So now there's a baby and heaping scorn on a woman does not encourage her to be pro-life. Most would rather get a quiet abortion that be humiliated.
So, in response to one more-minor moral fault, when criticized, they would respond with a MUCH more major MURDER?
If that is true, they have no moral underpinning anyways.
To see what I am saying, it is as if -- when you catch your child stealing cookies -- you dare not criticize them because they might set your house on fire.
I can't get with that.