Your male relative has an obligation to support the child. Too bad he puts her in the situation where she feels that desperate for paternal support.
Babies are best with their natural parents, even if that means only one. Second choice is married male-female families. This day and age adoption could mean a real disaster for the child.
You don’t know what you are talking about. My relative is the most generous man on earth - his wife is a Hollywood Kardasian type who has made his life a living hell - and her own and her son’s at the same time. My relative has sent his kid to private schools, a great college and provided him with a car in which he commutes to that school. His mother hasn’t worked in 20 years - she just takes the check and if it is too small she stands on the street and shrieks at his closed windows. He then has to go to court and get a restraining order. What a happy couple! What an example for a kid!
Of course, he shouldn’t have got in this position in the first place. Same with Bristol.