I’ve been to all the South Jersey beaches - many, many times when I was younger and lived in NJ and PA. I wouldn’t go back. There are many east coast and Gulf beaches that are SO much nicer and much less crowded.
Actually, I much prefer freshwater lakes and mountains to the beach, anyhow.
I’m glad you enjoy them.
Then don’t go back. There is no comparison between a NJ beach and the Gulf Coast of Florida, two entirely different worlds. However we all can’t get up in the morning and go to Sri Lanka. So for those within travel distance of the Jersey Shore I highly recommend Cape May. In any event gambling has had no effect outside of Atlantic City. The Jersey Shore is still a great family tradition.