Well I’m not a spinster but I was unmarried for over 20 years when I met Mr. GG2. I finally got the right guy. I’m sorry I wasn’t a spinster the whole time til I met him. He was worth the wait.
I have a friend who never married til she was 48 and she said she just never met the right guy. They have been happily married for many years now.
For me, anyway.
My cousin got married for the first time when she was 55. He was in his 60s and had been married previously. They’ve been married 13 years now and seem quite happy. I always remember their anniversary because one of my sons was born a few days earlier!