You addressed this to me so I will answer.
The little Duggar girls understand modesty....
that’s why they warn their dad if someone is inappropriate.
My granddaughter has a well developed sense of modetsty......and will tell us when someone is inappropriately displaying themselves,
This is refreshing and affirming.
If you are male and have trained your little granddaughter to be in charge of your lustfull eyes, I find that extremely distasteful.
Same if you are a female who is hyper-sexualizing a young granddaughter.