To further elaborate, unless the aliens have a magical energy source (zero point energy for example) any energy source will have IR output and, since enormous energy is required, there will be a very large IR output.
But, if the aliens have a magical energy source, then they probably have a magical FTL stardrive, too, and then, no, we won’t see them coming.
Most likely the aliens would have to have that magical energy source and a matching stardrive. Otherwise travel between stars is not possible: