If he asks politely, make his plate. Because you do kind things for each other. If he grunts or demands, to hell with him.
but you are not the kind of woman to go around fixing plates for a man, so you ignore him.
Why wouldn't you fix a plate for him if he asks ... politely? Couples do things for each other ... when treated kindly. If you're the "I ain't stepping and fetching" kind of woman with an attitude, who would want you?
A random woman hears this and says, ‘I will fix his plate.’ She sashays away and comes back with a plate for your man. Do you have any problems with this?”
She needs to butt the hell out. It's not her place to interfere in someone other couple's marital politics or play the suck-up role.
A random woman hears this and says, ‘I will fix his plate.’ She sashays away and comes back with a plate for your man. Do you have any problems with this?”
This guy is probably a back-to-the-wall, situational awareness guy who is watching for trouble, quietly.
In a relaxed environment, women are better at making a plate as they know where the hidden appetizer gems are and will generally produce a nutritionally balanced plate vs. a man’s instinctive piling on only ham or brisket and potatoes unless he has an epicurean streak, which this guy clearly doesn’t.