Let me tell you.
I work in a hospital in Oakland and the majority of the parents don’t discipline their kids.
The ED is usually trashed,the pt rooms are trashed,the equipment is missing from rooms,linens,wheel chairs and even a blood pressure stand on wheels was attempted to be stolen from a patient care area.
As one child said to a nurse:”My dad says you have to do whatever I say and if I pee o this floor ,you have to clean it up.”
A good friend once lived in Oakland Hills. His 2 boys got tired of confrontations and theft of their property. He moved out 100 miles NE of the Gay area to escape back in the early 90s.