When I realized that I seriously reconsidered my 25ish years of sobriety. It sounds pretty far out, but if you think about it, it really is true.
If you put a DSM 4 down next to any of those people/behaviors and checked the boxes, where would it lead? Not to stable well adjusted individuals with a grasp on reality, thats for sure.
It doesn’t seem quite as bad if you don’t think about it too much!