“I guess as a kid you never had to hide in your room while some a hole slapped your mom around. I did. It sucked. And my mother, sister and I were better off with out him. Sometimes it makes sense. Son of a Single mom.”
Your situation is/was not in the same league as a no-fault divorce. Apples and oranges... Your throwing up a false flag.
No. I guess I misread ‘fwdude’s comment. I took it as ‘stay together no matter what, it’s better for the kids’ and I was reacting to that. I see what he meant now.