Divorce has been way better for my kids than the situation we were in for years. I’ve never been one FOR divorce, but I’m happy my wife filed for divorce and my kids (who are with me) are better off, too. And I think it’s ridiculous that the process is taking years and years and expensive as heck- $225,000 so far and counting, all told.
*whew*...My attorney all told was about 19k. On that backend of my divorce I’m wrestling with the 40K of debt she left behind. My kids live with me full time and I kept the house so no real complaints. Many on this thread don’t get that sometimes a spouse spirals out of control and divorce IS better for the kids. My kids straight up told me they were pissed at ME because I kept letting their mom come back and live with us. Once they let it be known their true feelings, I got an attorney and began divorce.