I don’t personally like to get too self righteous about sex. That’s a personal decision. There are many forms of safe and effective birth control which I also have no problem with. The pill is overall very safe and effective. Most women do not experience the Possible but not probable severe side effects. Also most women who get pregnant while taking the pill forget to take the pill.
What I don’t have a lot of sympathy for is women who live in the USA and have cheap easy access to birth control and don’t bother to utilize it and then get pregnant and have abortions.
One of the worst long-term effects of contraception is detachment of emotional and moral perception in both males and females. It leads to easy promiscuity and shallow or no attachment. This is the "mind-set" that is destroying lasting pair-bonding, marriage, and stable family-formation in this country and every society where the power of sex has been denatured by contraception..
Anything that's very effective in splitting sex away from fertility, is also very effective in killing a marriage culture. I don't have to predict this anymore. I just observe and report.
And who’s being self-righteous? Pointing out cause and effect, long-term natural and logical consequences, is not self-righteousness. It’s sound judgment.