It is clearly not normal. Neither is dyslexia, or schizophrenia, or ADHD. But none of them are the person’s fault. When brains are damaged, we need to be more understanding and kinder.
Many people with this problem kill themselves. Mostly because idiots like some of you FReepers mock them mercilessly. If you were on this thread mocking this man describing his mental illness, don’t call yourself a good person. He feels the way he feels because there is something unusual about his brain. It is, if you will, a female brain (which can be seen in a scan). It is not something he chose.