OMG...things are crazy. Drama. I hate drama. Kate is still in the hospital. No diagnosis as yet. She informed us this morning that she is unsure of the trip, but still wants to go. She is the photographer. I called my future SIL and asked about his sister, who is also a photographer. She has said she will not do it....I pray she will agree to step up if we need her. What else can we do at this point?