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"We do have a very good sex life": Gay men with straight wives are coming out - as happily married
Salon ^ | 4/19/2015 | Tracy Clark-Flory

Posted on 04/20/2015 8:11:24 AM PDT by NetAddicted

On the surface, the question seems simple enough: “Are you sexually attracted to your wife?” That’s what I asked 34-year-old Joshua Weed during a phone call. He breathed in deep. “That’s a really difficult question,” he said. “It’s hard to say that with clarity.” Weed is sexually attracted to men, but he’s married to a woman. “I love her very much and we do have a very good sex life,” he said. “I think she’s beautiful.” But he adds: “I’m gay.”

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To: NetAddicted
"What does beta male mean?"

Metrosexual pajama boy.

41 posted on 04/20/2015 8:35:42 AM PDT by CatherineofAragon ("This is a Laztatorship. You don't like it, get a day's rations and get out of this office.")
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To: NetAddicted
Re: 34

Thanks - I will just take it as a 'feel good' story then. Man recognizes his sin nature and is able to overcome. If it is by 'will-power', it probably won't stick (but kudos for recognizing the sin and trying to overcome it); but if he has turned over the reins of his heart to the Holy Spirit -- good for him. It will stick.

42 posted on 04/20/2015 8:36:17 AM PDT by El Cid (Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house...)
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To: NetAddicted

I had a friend that was gay, a male stripper in New Orleans no less. He says the sex and ketamine nearly killed him; now he’s married to a woman and is living happily.

Sexual desire is psychological.


43 posted on 04/20/2015 8:37:49 AM PDT by struggle
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To: NetAddicted
He's not going to be married long or be gay. Once she gets tired of being cheated upon, or gets tired of bailing him out, or gets a venereal disease the good times will be over.

For him, his chances of sexual organ troubles (and I include rot here) are greatly increased. And I do not have to mention anal and oral troubles do I?

Herod the Great had maggots infesting his penis and this is not the only damage foreign organisms can do.

Folks think they can get rid of God's Laws such as regarding Adultery, Fornication and Homosexuality with impunity. But the consequences and logical consequences are inevitable no matter what society says.

44 posted on 04/20/2015 8:37:58 AM PDT by CptnObvious
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To: NetAddicted

this freak’s “wife” must be insane.


45 posted on 04/20/2015 8:42:51 AM PDT by PGR88
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To: Jonty30

“... they are the ones women usually want to get married to”.

Wow.. do I disagree with you on that one! The women I know.. most of my female gal pals on FR... adore Alpha real men. Perhaps we have a disagreement with definition. I say an alpha male is a man who is all man, loves God/country/family, and doesn’t cry when he gets a splinter. A beta watches chick flicks (because he really likes them), uses more hair products than I do (and that’s not an easy feat), and whines about having a rough day/cutting the grass or anything else that doesn’t go his way.


46 posted on 04/20/2015 8:43:03 AM PDT by momtothree
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To: pepsionice
Actually...if he’s having relations with the wife...he can’t be gay, he can only be bi.

In the immortal words of Andrew Dice Clay....you either **** #### or you DO NOT *** ####.

47 posted on 04/20/2015 8:44:23 AM PDT by Puppage (You may disagree with what I have to say, but I shall defend to your death my right to say it)
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To: V_TWIN
Hell, the whole gay/bi thing confuses the crap outta me.........always has.

"You either s--- d--- or you do not s--- d---, there is no in-between." - Andrew Dice Clay

48 posted on 04/20/2015 8:45:33 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: Puppage

GMTA


49 posted on 04/20/2015 8:45:52 AM PDT by dfwgator
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To: NetAddicted

It’s a worthwhile article. There are many lost folks here at Free Republic.


50 posted on 04/20/2015 8:46:06 AM PDT by bramps
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To: NetAddicted

Now they’re just _ with us.


51 posted on 04/20/2015 8:46:07 AM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: pepsionice

Not necessarily. He could be using Viagra or getting some assistance from her.


52 posted on 04/20/2015 8:47:26 AM PDT by napscoordinator (Walker for President 2016. The only candidate with actual real RESULTS!!!!! The rest...talkers!)
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To: dfwgator

I know a guy who had to raise his Grand Children. His son “came out” to him one day. Then his son told him he had AIDS. Then his son told him that he had given AIDS to his wife. They were both dead with-in a year.


53 posted on 04/20/2015 8:48:50 AM PDT by massgopguy (I owe everything to George Bailey)
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To: Resolute Conservative

Once straight men realize it’s possible to take advantage of preferential treatment policies by claiming to be “gay but happily married to a woman” your “low” number is really going to spike.


54 posted on 04/20/2015 8:50:28 AM PDT by tanknetter
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To: ryan71
I can’t go to salon.com. Break out in hives.

I have to take a shower with a disinfectant.

55 posted on 04/20/2015 8:50:48 AM PDT by fwdude (The last time the GOP ran an "extremist," Reagan won 44 states.)
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To: massgopguy

The poor man.


56 posted on 04/20/2015 8:51:08 AM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: NetAddicted

I know of two women who after 20+ years of marriage had their husbands come out of the closet and leave their families for a man.

One woman was my third grade teacher-for awhile I wondered if I could be fooled and marry someone like her husband, a nice guy who was very involved in their church. It must have affected me as a I married the manliest man I ever met. It’s a trade-off, thoughtfulness and sensitivity are not his strengths ;).


57 posted on 04/20/2015 8:54:54 AM PDT by NorthstarMom (God says debt is a curse and children are a blessing, yet we apply for loans and prevent pregnancy.)
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To: dfwgator

No in-between?

I think the guys who are straight when they are out of prison and not straight when they are in prison would say they can change their actions, at least, according to the situation.


58 posted on 04/20/2015 8:57:04 AM PDT by married21 ( As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.)
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To: struggle

What is ketamine?


59 posted on 04/20/2015 8:59:08 AM PDT by married21 ( As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.)
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To: momtothree

Alpha males tend to be the guys who are bigger and stronger than other males. They are the more attractive males, because they are the more physically capable male and are often more confident of themselves. When not God led, they tend to have more sexual partners than other males. They often play the field and sire more children, without being a father to those children. When women cheat in their marriages, it will often be with this sort of male.

Beta males tend to not be as strong or as physically capable, but they will often share more of the homelife responsibilities. Because they will take on more of the homelife, women will be more attracted to this sort of male for childrearing responsibilities. The beta male will take the tradeoff of accepting more of an equal marriage in order to be a father and husband.


60 posted on 04/20/2015 9:00:58 AM PDT by Jonty30 (What Islam and secularism have in common is that they are both death cults)
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