Disagree 100%.Of course one’s spouse must always be *very* important on those rare occasions when one *must* choose between spouse and child (and how often do choices like that *really* occur?) the choice must be for the *child’s* best interests.If we were on the Titanic and my wife had to choose if I,or our daughter,would get the last seat on the lifeboat I *know* she would choose,and would *urge* that she choose,our daughter.And if I was forced to make the same decision *I* would choose our daughter.
And if you have 3 kids? or 7??
Wow... you can put that statement in a dictionary to explain what a strawman argument is...
Seriously, 99.9 % of family decisions are not a matter of life or death...