Another example: I saw a video of a Hasidic wedding, an arranged marriage where the bride and groom were basically touching for the first time when they held hands. The pure sweet wonder and transporting joy on both of their faces!!
Exactly right.
Neither one of those things seems even remotely possible when anything you want to see is just a click away.
There is no mystery anymore.
Not all arranged marriages have joy; an arranged marriage relies on the good judgement and sincere wish for the happiness of the bride and groom and I’ll be honest when I say that I do think people from the same background should marry.