[Olog-hai]

You don’t put it in God’s hands while obeying men rather than God. Take note of Acts 5:29, where the Apostles blatantly went against the command (presumably “lawful” in a similar context to today, since the Sanhedrin did have the force of law even under the Romans) to not preach in Jesus’ name in Jerusalem, and Peter’s reply.

[joesbucks]

You're not obeying man. You're slyly putting God into mix. Every piece of cake. Every noticed floral bouquet. Every tune played (if a band is hired) or every chair sat in if a celebration hall has been blessed and will have an effect on the people who comes in contact.

You won't stop the sin. But you can bless the mess for change.