No child support. She got the house, I got all four kids and all the bills. She was and still is on SS disability.
I’m kind of in your boat. I kept the home (and all the marital debt) and my kids (the ultimate objective) live with me full time. She refuses to work or help out financially with the kids and is going for the holy grail of disability.
Fortunately, I only have to do four years alimony and it decreases when certain criteria are meat and has a non-modifiable clause in the divorce decree. I was going to go to family court for support but realized it wasn’t worth it; more of headache than anything else.
I am sorry for your situation, truly. The one who cares the most and does the most in a marriage is almost always the one who hurts the most in a divorce, whether male or female. Peace be with you.