Serious as a heart attack.
Sounds like you have had a hard time lately. In time, I hope God gives you more perspective about the entire field of divorce than merely your own experience. It is not as black and white as you want to make it.
That said, I do agree that the culture and political system is making everything regarding a lasting traditional marriage harder all the time, by marxist design.
The perspective I have arrived at is that the more a corrupt and God-less system defecates on me, the less obligation I have to obey it or its corrupt rules.
Somebody else’s “good experiences” matter as much to me as the Apollo 11 moon landings matter to an Amazon native.
“Scorched earth” is not just a phrase and the US is not the only country on the Earth.
You may be serious but it just makes your argument all the more ridiculous. To establish your moral equivalency argument you select a man who has a large house, pool, secretary, a business with an obvious mid-six figure salary. I.e. <1% of American males. That you need to go to <1% of the population to make an argument, which you are serious about, illustrates nothing but the absurdity of your viewpoint.