“Whenever I see a guy who has a few daughters all around the same age, that’s the first thing I think about, “I hope this guy is saving up now for their weddings.””
If you raise em right, it ain’t such a problem. Your own church is right there. There are amazing parks, backyards, and fraternal halls all around you. Go to the Mexican side of town for a dress as good as money can buy for pennies on the dollar. Walmart had flowers last time I was there. And I bet you could order special ones even.
And lo and behold, in the process, you are teaching them how to be a good wife. Funny how that works out. Almost like it was a plan of some kind.
Go to a graphics printing shop for the invitations. I did with my daughters wedding. Had the proofs two days later, completed order in 5 days (with a 24 hour replacement guarantee if the product doesn't match the proofs), and I saved $400 over what Hallmark was going to charge.