I could only suggest to look to the Bible as a guide.
I (nowadays, after my conversion), always look to the Bible as my guide first when considering “big decisions” such as this.
Of course, Scripture, applied to the situation, many times will guide me in a DIFFERENT direction than I first thought was “best”.
Once upon a time there was a very large painting in Tactical Air Command (TAC) Headquarters. It hung on the landing of the stairway to the second floor: It was of a family praying together and under it were these words:
Then I heard the voice of the Lord saying, “Whom shall I send? And who will go for us?”
And I said, “Here am I. Send me!”
Isaiah 6:8