Please encourage her to study options.
GOOD college FIRST, with ROTC, then a commissioned future in the Air Force. - sounds good. But steel her for the current environment. Biblically, we are in the world, but not of it. She should take the approach of a visitor from the Starship Enterprise or a Rebel somewhere in the Empire. Play along, survive, but only to the extent necessary not to get caught or killed by the natives. She WILL be subjected to all sorts of peer pressure.
This is not your father’s DOD...