Thanks for your reply.
Lotta things I coulda, woulda, shoulda said, including what your answer ;)
Always being able to say something is only a virtue in women's television shows and courtrooms. When someone is raping the emotional trust you've extended her in order to try to use that intimacy to cripple your heart, it is precisely your love for them that holds your tongue - and precisely their own personal soul degradation and sadism that allows them to speak.
In such a situation, let your feet do the talking for you - walk away, and don't come back.