I don’t blame men. I blame the attitude of feminists. They told young women that they could use their bodies as currency, that sex didn’t mean anything. To allow themselves to be used for sex and that something was wrong with *them* if they had ‘hangups’ about it.
Feminism has done more to degrade and destroy women’s sense of self-respect and self-worth than any man has.
After a year of encouraging men to use me, I stepped back, admitted that my body did have value, and was married to a good man a year later. Been with him for more than 25 years now.
But it was that moment of clarity - that moment when I realized that I didn’t have to sleep with men just because they showed an interest and that there was nothing *wrong* with me for saying ‘no’ and valuing *myself* - that’s what saved me.
I had to step out of a lifetime of feminist brainwashing in order to find happiness.
And it does piss me off when feminists put women in this position, then get mad at the men who accepted the offer that *the women* made.
She was hanging around the PLAYBOY MANSION. It’s a sex palace. What the hell did she think was going to happen?!
Wow. Good post.