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To: CodeToad
They are not “gay”, and, in fact, they are rarely actually ever happy.

Exactly. One of my brothers is homosexual, and while he's a really nice guy and I trust him with my kids (it helps that he's mellowed considerably as he's gotten older and no longer makes being "gay" the centerpiece of his identity), I've also watched him grow more and more miserable with homosexual politics over the years.

When I or my very Evangelical parents hang out with him and his "gay" friends, we inevitably hear a litany of abuse and rejection as we get their backstories--and every one whose backstory I've gotten has a molestation somewhere in there. The same is true of a transsexual friend; he spent years insisting that being molested by his uncle hadn't affected him, right up to the point where he suddenly decided that he was really a woman.

The point is that no homosexual just wakes up and decides to be gay out of the blue. You're dealing with traumatized and hurting people, whether because of a predator or abuser in their past, or due to some other mental/emotional factor. Society first marginalized them, then turned around and told them that their molesters were right: they were just born this way.

So, they feel the shame and self-loathing of the molested, but swallow the lie that it's only because "society"--or to be more specific, Christians--are judgmental. Small wonder that they lash out: They just want to be released from the shame and misery that they've carried their whole lives.

In short, they've been trapped by a lie that keeps them from the One who could actually release them.

34 posted on 11/06/2014 6:52:03 AM PST by Buggman (returnofbenjamin.com)
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To: Buggman

It isn’t just molestation, although the stories seem to indicate it.

It is also a cowardly way out of society.

A wimpy boy is shunned, pushed aside, or otherwise having a hard time finding acceptance. It is something we all went through at some point in our childhood, but we toughen up, learn to adapt, gain confidence through self-discipline and proper parental and adult influences, and become well adjusted.

Homosexuals accept the wimpy boy if he will act girly and be close to them. The boy is hooked. He gets to not learn or mind normal behaviors or use personal discipline to act properly. He gets to act out in various ways and the homosexuals love him for it. He finds acceptance. The sex acts come later. They start with simple touching and cuddling then progressing into hardcore sex acts later. The boy thinks this is all wrong but it is much simpler than living a non-homosexual lifestyle; well, that’s what he is led to believe. By the time he is an adult he knows no other way. He finds heterosexual relationships foreign to him.

To compensate, many homosexuals turn to body building. Being a fit person is a sexual turn on but their body building transcends that. They need a masculine persona to try to feel normal, to justify their girly and wimpy behaviors they otherwise show in private.


36 posted on 11/06/2014 7:05:02 AM PST by CodeToad (Islam should be outlawed and treated as a criminal enterprise!)
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