I do not care if it is mandatory! it is still worked and contributed to the household! Women still benefit from it.
A maid is MUCH cheaper than a wife. I know from experience. So fool yourself if you like but that is flat out wrong.
I have not patted myself on the back. And yes, men who do not pay child support are despicable, as long as they agreed to have the child, they must pay.
Yes, and there are no gold digging, lying and cheating women! lol, that’s the best one I have heard all day!
I never hear praise for good men! All I hear in the popular culture and even on this site is what men are supposed to be doing to please women! All I hear is about how we men, especially white men, are a bunch or oppressors, or fools. I never hear or see a list of things women should be doing to please men. That’s because of the sense of entitlement many women have. They get what they want, and just because they are who they are, they are entitled.
Well, there are gold digging ,lying and cheating women just as there are men. Yes overtime is work and money, however you may be happier with a maid, but marriage should be the correct standard for happiness.
I surmise you have not had any great intimate and fulfilling relationships with women that were equally satisfying. Women have the same disappointments with men. That is life, and life is not fair.
Most women I know, including me, appreciate good men who work and contribute to making a home balanced and peaceful. I will say women should set the tone in the home, however alcoholics and drug addicts do not allow their women to do that.
No we can never make a person do what they are supposed to do, and that means relationships fail. So find someone you agree with spiritually, financially, food, and recreation. “how can two walk together except they be agreed.”
My happiness is not dependent upon my husband, it is my inner soul connection with God that transcends life’s difficulties, that way my husband is free to be himself, as am I....we co exist with no friction for we do not make the other person responsible for our contentment.
Hopefully, you will find that balance.