I am fastideosly military about my house. After 17 years of bitching, complaining and just being pissed off, I no longer care. I also don’t let visitors in my house because she doesn’t understand.
During my illustrious (cough,cough) military career I decided early on that it was in my best interests to learn to pass inspections...so I did.But I fell out of that habit *very* quickly after discharge. ;-)