I love using sarcasm and irony around anybody, not just friends.
I've engaged in heterosexual sex more than 3900 times in my life. That's just a quick calculation of 2.5x per week average x 30 years of marriage. It was actually closer to 2.5x per day the first few years!
I've fathered three conservative daughters who all married conservative men and have given us three grandchildren, with at least one more on the way.
I think about heterosexual sex maybe only once per hour now, considerably down from the "constantly" where I was 20-30 years ago.
Homosexual activity has about as much appeal to me as skinny dipping in a sewage treatment pond.
So, am I an anomaly? I think I'm pretty darn normal among real American men.
Wait until you get to be my age...you'll think far more often about having a good poop than about "being with" your wife. ;-)