I have a 20-year old homeless women I took in to live with me.
Her situation: she married a young man who promised a family centered lifestyle but who lacked a sense of family responsibility. He said he wanted a family and when the baby was born, he disappeared. She ended up living with her grandparents, who took the money she received from the government.
She is opposed to welfare. She sought a divorce and gave up her baby for adoption AFTER child protective services seized the infant on trumped up charges. His family came out of the woodwork to block the adoption and he won’t sign the divorce papers; her grandparents kicked her out of their house because she no longer received government checks.
She will soon be getting job training because it is now obvious that, married or not, she will have to work to support herself. Life is uncertain but one thing she has determined - a woman cannot expect men to be 100% truthful.
I'm so glad we women are always 100% honest and aboveboard with men, aren't you?
It is always the best thing for a child to grow up with good, loving parents. That is their first lesson as to what would make a good mate. If a child does not grow up with that they will have a more difficult time in knowing what to look for.
Sounds like she was not given those very important lessons while she was growing up or else she would have recognized an unfaithful character. It is like insurance for the future. Not all guys are like that. If she really wants to have a good family she should take the time to get out of her mess, pray for a good spouse and learn to be a good friend.
“I have a 20-year old homeless women I took in to live with me.”
That’s a heck of a story. Be careful she’s not scamming you.