I am so very sorry. In a way, your dad is lucky because he doesn’t really know what is going on with him, and doesn’t remember what life used to be like.
On the other hand, your mom and your brother and you will need all the love and care you can get from everyone, so *HUG*
How old is your dad? I’m sure you told me once, but I have forgotten. I have a hard job remembering the names of your children and their approximate ages, and you talk about them all the time.
I know what you are going through...I still recall my own dad’s last days and weeks. Sadly, I’m reliving them, now, and that’s good because I need to empathize with you when you need it. *HUG*
Please keep me informed and forget what I said earlier. I’ll make something work, somehow.
Dad is 78.