It is easier when the kids are long gone and it is just the husband and wife.
With kids, you want it all things for all ages. Nearing retirement, the urge to entertain to a certain standard is passing, the thing that are important to you as a couple take over and reality of the brevity of life simplifies the desires.
Yes, it will be easier after the kids have aged out. One is almost yhere and we havd at least five years on the other.
We ard in our fifties so have a bit of time before retirement. Used to look at going out of state to try and escape crazy lefties, muslims and thugs but now it’s all about getting the biggest bang for the buck since they’re defecating in ALL 50 states by now.
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