How about everyone has to go to college to get that good job. Ok, got the job so now life is about me. Uhoh, now I am 40 and it is still about me but I better get married. We now might squeeze out 1 kid if WE (more self) really feel like it. We have the kid and are now afflluent so we give the kid every thing there is. Now spoiled child, almost grown repeats steps of selfish parent, only with more attitude. But, think about it, do we really want more Kennedys.
Don’t know I agree with that entirely. Some of us went to college, got good jobs, got married and had multiple kids.
Part of it too it confidence in yourself and your culture. If you think that Western culture is the source of all evil and racism, you’re less likely to have kids.