Then you are a fool.
The people who fail to teach their children proper behavior are raising little selfish monsters that you will have to pay for in various ways.
Now ,I ,on the other hand would not criticize,indeed ,I really wish more parents spanked their brats in public for misbehavior.
I loathe those who tolerate children messing with the food or other items in a store,those who allow their children to wear clothing with offensive slogans, who think its somehow cute for children to curse, who dress their little daughter like a cheap whore,etc.
The “village” used to quietly encourage decent normal behavior before the worship of self replaced worship of God.
I’m not an enemy of teaching your children proper behavior. I’m an enemy of the idea that the collective can do a better job than biologic parents.
That makes me a fool in your eyes. I’ll remember that.