I start having PTSD when you talk about the wedding....looking back at how I needed to be in four places at once. I know my daughter felt like it was all on her shoulders but I felt like I was running to catch up all the time. I need to go take an advil.....
and I don’t even feel like that! having a day-of planner has taken a tremendous load off. I know you mentioned that you thought that would be helpful and I took it to heart and planned to ask one of my friends to do it, but xshub actually was the one to press for a professional to do it. He has meeting planners who work for him and he knows what goes in to having an event go off without a hitch. I fought it for awhile but I am so glad I gave in on it. It’s more just the IDEA of it than anything in particular that has me worked up.