My sister was brutally murdered as well, a decade ago.
I like to think I’m not carrying around baggage imposed on me by the evil man who did it to her. God knows.
Having said that, I can say without heat, if the law allowed me to pull the trigger or the switch on him tomorrow, I would do so without hesitation or regret.
Read Genesis chapter nine, which was given to all mankind. The absolute requirement that those who shed innocent blood be sent to God for judgment has never been amended or repealed.
That imperative command was in fact the basis for the executive power of government.
My prayers go out to Mr. Grammer and his family.
Condolences on the loss of your sister.